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There is most definitely a proper and improper use of sex toys, and the usage parameters I believe are even more compounded in the “Christian” zone.

There are several areas in which marital aids may be used within the compound of marriage. Those are:

1. Sex Toys Awaken Sexual Awareness There’s no disputing that orgasms feel good. Sex toys help you have better, stronger, longer orgasms, or just plain have an orgasm at all. They are in fact a “learning tool”. They are also a guarantee that each participant within the marriage will want to come back for more. Hence abolishing the “I have a headache”, scenario. After all, how many of you men out there would be into bi-weekly intimate interludes if you knew it would never lead to climax? Ahhh…I’m guessing – none of you. So why would husband’s expect their wives to and even more surprising, why would wives want to. Yes, there is always the “I want to please my husband” component, but that should coincide with I want to please my wife initiative. There is a simple solution to this problem, you can both be satisfied!

2. Sex Toys are Fun. What marriage couldn’t use more fun to mix up their everyday grind. Most couples get bored with their sex lives at some point in their relationships. Sex toys add a bit pizzazz to the relationship and keep the fires burning. Using a sex toy together can bring you closer; sharing new experiences together can be very intimate and the conversations they stir up can also have a positive affect on sexual communication, which is extremely important to be the best lover you can be to your spouse.

3. Sex Toys Can Make Sex Better…and who doesn’t want better sex. Let’s face it, we can always be better than what we are at pleasing our spouse sexually. So guess what, you never need to stop trying! Women, to the most part, have difficulty achieving orgasms unless they receive clitoral stimulation (most of those who say they can, are simply just not telling the truth.) which can be difficult to manage during intercourse alone. Also, many men have trouble sustaining their erections as long as they would like or need to satisfy their wife in this way. Sex toys can help in both of those situations. They can also enhance a perfectly good lovemaking session, adding just enough “oomph” to turn a great experience into an outstanding one. For those of you that are reaching leaps and bounds in your sex lives without the needs of any marital aids, GOOD FOR YOU. You may consider though filling the rest of us in on this BLOG. (:

So, now that you have been given three of the main reasons Marital Aids (Sex Toys) are used within the realms of a Christian marriage, stay tuned to find out…

…WHEN WE SHOULDN’T USE SEX TOYS!

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