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SEX:

Men have their highest levels of testosterone between the hours of 2 and 6 in the morning. So that will explain those affectionate mornings when you are still too tired to speak (even better!) So women, if your husband having difficulty achieving an erection, set your alarm a little earlier tomorrow morning.

A man needs to be sexually satisfied in order for him to feel confident with his life and his marriage. There is nothing worse than in unconfident husband with low self esteem, so meet their realistic needs ladies.

Keep communication open in the bedroom. Men love to get positive feedback before, during and after sex. They are conquerors and it is very important to them that you loved it as much as they did. If they never get positive feedback, you will break down the intimacy between you.

It IS physical! When the vessels fill up, there is a strong physical need for release approximately every 3 days. No joke.

Men go into a type of Menopause too, it is called Andropause. At this time there testosterone decreases along with their sex drive. Natural hormones can be a lifesaver during this time of drought. It this is an issue with your husband, do the research but, stay natural.

Do you ever wonder why your husband is ready to jump into the sack after an argument? When you are still upset needing at least a few days to fully get over things and want to express your love on a sexual level. Hormone increase explains a part of it, but men also think in boxes which enables them to compartmentalize their thoughts. They can leave your argument in once box and simply jump into another box. With men thinking about sex every 6 minutes, they don’t want to stay in any given box for long. Also, men have a need just like us women do, to feel that everything is OK with you, and what would be a better way to achieve that then to make love to their wife and have that love returned to them. This however isn’t always possible for the woman, and men need to come to that understanding too. This is just one of our unique differences.

BE HIS CHAMPION:

Do no compare him to other men, whether is the neighbor, your best friend’s husband, your ex-boyfriend, or even your ex-husband. Daydreaming and drooling over movie stars in front of your spouse in not only unkind but very unrealistic.

Reading romance novels for many women can be a dangerous pastime. It makes us as women concentrate on what could and what should be, and this concentration on the negative can drive a wedge between us and our husbands. Romance novels may look like the optimum circumstance but they are fiction and set you up for many disappointments. We mustn’t make our husbands feel inadequate; this will only destroy them as husbands, and ultimately ruin us for what we want most. How would you feel if your husband came home with a playboy magazine, opened it to the centerfold, pointed out the beautiful, voluptuous, thin women featured on it and asked you, “why don’t you look like her”? Would you not think he was cruel? How long would it be before you felt loving and wanted to become intimate with him? The “physical” aspect is the equivalent of the “emotional” that most of us women look to complete ourselves with our husbands.”

Cheer him on through the tough days he faces at work. Pray for him and offer to pray with him (and actually do it!) before he runs out that door. Give him a big smile, a hug and a kiss when he gets home. Give his back or head a good fingernail scratch before going to bed a night.

Discover your husband’s strengths and encourage them. (Romans 12, Ephesians 4)