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NEED THEIR WIFE TO BE FEMININE:

I know this one seems a little strange to some, but not all women drip with femininity, and evidently, this is high on men’s list of needs. I guess it goes back to the “balance” thing. It is what separates us from the boys and what probably landed them in the first place. Most men love to see their ladies dress us for them, the smell of their perfume, they way they walk in their heels, and especially their softer more feminine voice. They just love their wife’s softer side. Between you and me, there is much power in your feminine ways, it is like kryptonite, so don’t hold back, let it flow in your marriage.

KEEP HIS CONFIDENCES:

You know how we spoke about being our spouse’s companion, well here is the next step – keep their secrets. Would you want your best friend to divulge your deepest secrets? So why would you tell your best friend, your parents or anyone else what your husband has told you in confidence. (Once again, unless you are in an abusive relationship,) your spouse needs to come first. You must form a team facing trials together and keeping your secrets within a fortress that only he and you hold the key. This is what builds intimacy in your marriage.

Remember the above still counts during prayer time during bible study. This is not the time, “in the name of prayer and people who care about you”, to start spilling all your husbands secrets, or your marital problems. These issues should always be discussed prior to your bible studied and agreed upon.

BE HIS CHEERLEADER:

Be your husband’s cheerleader. Just as you want him to notice all the little things you do, you need to notice the little things he does and commend him in detail. “Thank you Honey for changing the toilet paper roll in the bathroom and putting the plastic wrap from it in the trash. I really appreciate you doing that!” Or, “Thank you Darling for taking care of that telemarketer who called and asked for me, while I am cooking dinner – you saved me!” I’m sure you get the point.

When he comes home from work and tells you that he has gotten that promotion, or won over that particular client, show your admiration. Maybe even cook him a special celebratory meal or dessert, or anything else you maybe able to pull out of your sleeve.

Tell him how it turns you on how great he has been with the kids, or that you love the shirt he is wearing, or how yummy he smells with his new cologne or after shave.

Husbands love to be noticed for what they do, and this tip will take you far….trust me.

Wives, you are your husbands mirror!