Husband’s what do they want anyway?
Men are not nearly as complex as women regarding the everyday going’s on, but when it comes to their emotional make-up, there is some very important guidelines to follow if you want a confident, respectable and responsive husband.
THEY NEED TO FEEL SIGNIFICANT:
Men generally need to feels like their life is significant and that they are needed. But it goes even farther than this. They have a deep rooted need to feel like they are the best at it. They need to be a better father than brother Dan, a better breadwinner than his best buddy Mark, a better husband and lover than that romantic movie you watch every time you do the ironing. They just need to feel like they have it ALL trumped. But not necessarily do they need to know that this is how they are viewed to everyone, but they do need to know this is how “you” view them.
THE NEED TO FEEL COMPLETE (OR COMPLETED):
I know it sounds like some cliché out of a Women’s Weekly, but men too need to feel completed, and you are the woman for the job. God created woman complete man, and left him a need to be completed by her. It might be balancing him out, or backing him up, or just sitting beside him while he watches the game, but there is no doubt that he needs you to complete his life.
HE NEEDS YOU TO BE HIS COMPANION:
You may not be able to wrestle, get through the whole Friday night football game, or get excited by his peg board full of tools, but you without any doubt are his best friend. So sometimes when he asks you to come along with him to do what you see as the silliest tasks, GO! It is a complement to you and show of his affection that is completely non-sexual, (that’s right ladies, there are no strings), he just wants to be with you.
Sometimes we forget what our spouses really are to us. One day, if that day has not already come, our parents will pass away, our children will move away, our friends will become busy in their own jobs, families and the problems that go with them, and we will will find ourselves alone with our spouse. Our spouse will be our constant. You will undergo financial struggles, bad hair cuts, sexual complications, medical conditions, teenagers, senile seniors, losses of jobs, losses of family members and friends and your spouse will be your shoulder to lean on, shoulder to cry on, person to share your frustrations with. Everything should be done to deepen the companionship between a husband and wife so they are truly prepared to weather all the trials coming their way and grow closer to each other through them.
TO BE CONTINUED…………….