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Myth: Sex toys are kinky:

Fact: Define “kinky”? The Encarta dictionary defines “kinky” as: “being or engaging in unusual sexual practices that may be considered deviant.” Well if the Bible clearly says that, “The marriage bed is undefiled”, any sexual activity (with the exception of homosexuality, bestiality, and saddamy), certainly isn’t “deviant” among monogamous willing couples who partake in these practices. Oh, and “unusual” couldn’t be farther from the truth, as a staggering 10% of the US population alone, use sex toys on a fairly regular basis (30% of those being purchased by women). In other older countries, it is as high as 63%. (A more difficult number to cultivate I’m sure). So much greater is the percentage of sexually dissatisfied couples, and the divorce rate percentage which just keeps on rising. Let’s face it, sex toys in a loving monogamous relationship, is definitely worth a shot, if it does nothing else but improve the levels of communication in ones marriage, it has served a great purpose.

Myth: Can damage be caused to your body by Sex toys:

Fact: Surely those on the “Sex Toys are Bad” committee has come up with this one and a variety of other arguments in their quest to support that statement. They have said that sex toys “can ruin you for sex with your spouse”, that “they are addictive”, and that the practice is just down right “weird”. There is no evidence whatsoever that sex toys can physically harm, or damage your sexual sensitivity or any part of your personal parts, but moderation (as spoken of earlier) plays a roll just like in anything else. There is a better chance that the use of sex toys will help one discover where these sensitive parts are? Sexual discovery in a marriage is huge. Mix discovery with “Communication” and you have a powerful combination. However, if you are pregnant, or have suffered a miscarriage or are prone to any other medical condition of these regions you should always first consult with your doctor.