Sex Toys: Give Us the Facts!
The Facts:
Myth: The use of sex toys are only for couples who have no sex life, or a bad one at that.
Fact: There isn’t a “kind” of person who uses or does not use sex toys, its users crosses all boundaries. Leading research has proven that it is “people” that are already having sex are using toys and not the contrary; and, they use them more then those who are not actively having sex. 20-30% of people have used a sex toy at least once in their life.
Myth: Sex toys are addictive:
Fact: To say one is addicted usually means that something is harmful and that is not the case, not if these toys are properly used. Dependency on the other hand can be a pitfall with overuse, and one can become lazy - depending on such toys to do the work for them. However with addiction, there is also withdrawal which is not a side affect with sex toy use on any level, one can easily get back on track with their husband or wife in no time. In most cases, those who believe in sex toy addiction are those who do not believe in sex toys at all.
Myth: If a women has a sex toy, will she still want or need sex with her husband?
Fact: Sex toys of any kind are not replacements for our spouses. They do not go on walks with you hand in hand, remark on sunsets, listen to you about your bad day at work, bring you coffee in the morning, cuddle, or best of all say “I love you”. The problem we face here is that most men are brought up with the idea that what they bring to the table (or possibly the bed in this matter), in regards to sex is VERY important. They have put great emphasis on their male anatomy and as a result are insecure about their importance in the bedroom. Your wife will always prefer you if you don’t rush her, force her into positions she feels uncomfortable with, or expect sex in places or at times that are not conducive as “sex-friendly” zones or time zones. Remember, knowledge of how your wife’s body works is ‘key’, we never stop learning, you know, and nothing can beat not knowing what’s coming next – try getting that from a vibrator!
To be Continued…