Sex Facts - Part 2
Myth: Don’t sex toys make sex un-natural?
Fact: Unfortunately most people are raised with many misconceptions about sex growing up, especially Christians. They believe that “natural sex” computes to “missionary position sex”, which couldn’t be farther than the truth. If one reads the Songs of Solomon, they can see for themselves that God intended us to you use our imaginations to pleasure one another, make if fun, be adventurous and most of all “mix it up”, so it is always great, day after day, year after year. A sex toy does not work by itself, it requires an artist to manipulate the tool, with the use of his or her imagination, so that makes the toy only as great as the spouse manipulating it.
Myth: Are there bad sex toys and good sex toys?
Fact: I’m sure there are some poorly constructed toys out there; however, to the most part, it comes down to sex and personal opinion. A great toy to one person may be completely uneventful to the next. We all have different desires, are turned on by different sensations, and enjoy different speeds and intensities. Even the look or scent of a toy plays a factor for many. The trick is to experiment and find just the right toy or toys for you as a couple. This takes some time, lots of communication, trial and error and lots and lots of laughter!
Myth: The more you pay for a sex toy, the better it is:
Fact: A six dollar vibrator in some given situations may give you more pleasure than a $300 vibrator. However, in most cases, you get what you paid for. More expensive sex toys usually last longer, they are often made of better materials, and may come from smaller, more ethically run companies, but they are no product is guaranteed to make you feel better or give you more pleasure. Sex toys are like most other commercial products (with an exception of designer named items) if you want it to last, pay a little more. Bottom line is, sex toys are mere objects that need to run by pure experts. Communication is the best investment you will ever make!! “A great sex toy + an actively learning spouse does great sex make!”