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- Empty your bladder first; it will make it easier to hold the balls in.

- Insert one ball at a time; this is easier done if one leg is lifted up. Squeeze the PC muscles and hold the balls in. You will notice a feeling of fullness and notice the balls pushing down, but after a while you will be used to it, sort of like wearing a tampon.

- Wear them for a few hours every day.

- To remove the balls, you can lift up one leg and cough, or jump up and down. There is no way that the balls will ‘disappear’ into your body.

Ben Wa Ball Beginner Tips:

- When you first wear Ben Wa Balls, stay home and do not do any heavy physical activity, the balls will fall out. If they do, wash them off with soap and water and put it back in. It is also not recommended to go out and do any chores while you are getting used to the Ben Wa Balls, that would be embarrassing to sneeze in the supermarket and have a ball fall down your pant leg! It will take a few weeks of regular wearing before your muscles will be able to hold them in through physical activity. Be patient!

- Once you have no problem holding in the duotone balls, you can upgrade to metal balls and enjoy the benefits of strong PC muscles, it will pay off especially when you are older and if you give birth!

- You can wear Ben Wa Balls during sexual intercourse, this will add more fullness to your vagina and stimulate the penis as well. Using them during sex is also a good way to create more natural vaginal lubrication.

“Christian Marital Aids”….say what?  Do today’s Christians need help in the bedroom?  Yes, we Christians do have the upper hand on a marital bond beyond our deepest desires, but can we rely solely on that?  We as Christians have a loving God who wants nothing more than for us as couples to share an intimacy so strong it can never be severed, so why is it that some of us couples have sexually unsatisfied marriages?  It’s time to jump out of our “hush-hush Christian box” and seek out the Christian ministries and companies the supply us the road map to great Christian sex.

I guess the question still remains, “what are Christian Marital Aids”?  The operative word of “aid” is “to help”, “to educate, to “give assistance”, (but this one is my favourite…) “to provide with what is useful or necessary in achieving an end.”  Woo-hoo!  For some of us, well that just puts it in a nutshell doesn’t it?  Now if we make that “assistance” in accordance with God’s word, that’s where the Christian part comes in - now we have “Christian Marital Aids.”

These Christian Marital Aids can come in a variety of forms.  They can be simply Q&A, a little lesson in anatomy, lessons on communication and marriage building, or they can be actual instruments that serve as a useful in achieving an end.  Whether that be as simple as lubrication, more intense stimulation, or even extensions.  Sometimes it may even be creating a contusive atmosphere, or a sense of sexiness.  What ever it may be, some of us need “aid” in finding it.  For some, finding “it” is the source of the problem - that is where some handing education renders useful and highly encouraged!

Let’s face it, as humans we are all very different from one another, add a gender gap and we are all confused and could use a little help.  We no longer live in a world where Christians need to live in sexual darkness.  There are safe places to get the facts and learn how to knock the socks of our spouse in the bedroom!

Christian Marital Aids are most successful when they are found or purchased from places or sites that do not cause us guilt.  The feelings of guilt or shame were given to us for a reason.  Make sure you only go to sites that are God honouring and teach within our Christian value system.  Good sex comes from love, trust and a good understanding of each other and how each other work, which does not come from guilt and shame, lust and pornography.

So, Christian Marital Aids, are all about Christians helping. and educating other Christians, so that they can make the most of their marital relationships - keeping marriages strong and less vulnerable to the worlds attacks.  Sounds good to me!

For more information regarding Marital Aids please refer to the other articles in this BLOG and http://www.mybelovedsgarden.net/MARITAL_AIDS_(Sex_Toys).html

Sherri